It is no more news that marriages have lows and high time and several events take place that makes couples feel so much pressure and feel choked in marriage. And of course, the usual line of action is to find ‘solace’ in some available shoulders.
However, gone are the days when these available shoulders understand boundaries and even though they may be ‘providing succour’ to the wife or husband, they still at least understand certain boundaries. For instance, for no reason will I keep a married woman on the phone at night(especially anything from 8.30pm) when she is under her husband’s roof no matter how close we are. It is a brocode law for me.
But how come these days, you will find another married man, engaging another married woman under the roof of her husband on calls deep into the hours of the night?
Here is my thought, if a woman were to be having issues with her husband(aside from physical attack o) and she calls me at night when she should be on bed with the husband ,is it not reasonable for me to encourage the woman to put efforts into resolving the issue rather than cowardly running into my arms for solace at least for that night by simply postponing our calls till day time?
Or even if there were to be no issues, does it not look odd to be deeply engaged in cozzy calls with a married fellow in the deep of the night?
I am just wondering if I am overthinking this or perhaps it is just that people don’t care anymore about these things?
Why Are People Not Respecting The Sanctity Of Marriage Anymore? – Family – Nigeria (nairaland.com)